Here is the last in my 5 part series about anal sex (with some assistance from Jasmine Leigh at AskMen.com). I hope that you have enjoyed the series!

“Anal sex is many things to many people. Do it right, and you’ll get to do it again. Do it wrong, and you may be doomed forever. Well, probably not forever — but until she forgets how bad it was the first time around.

There are hundreds of anal sex guides online — explicit instructions on how to do it right. If you read at least a dozen of them, you’ll probably have a good idea about how to start off. The best piece of advice we can give you is to make sure she is hot for it before you start. Then you really can’t lose.

More Important facts about anal sex

Lubricant is essential
The anal canal does not produce its own lubricant, so it is imperative that you use a good quality lubricant in all your anal adventures. It is advisable to use a silicon-based lubricant because it tends to last longer and doesn’t dry up very quickly like some water-based lubricants do. Don’t use sticky petroleum-based products like Vaseline, as they clog up the walls of the rectum and are much too sticky.

Tease her
It is important that she is very turned on before you even go near her butt. When she’s turned on, her body is much more open to you than if she is only mildly turned on. She needs to be aching for you to touch her there. Then, when you start to touch her closer to her anus, she will respond with moans and groans instead of a tense grimace. Rub her body all over with oils, relax her, love her, adore her, and caress her. Get her to the point where she is begging you for it, and do this without putting a single thing in her — tease, tease, tease. Anticipation is one of the greatest sexual tools you have — use it to your advantage.

Condoms and hygiene
Disease can be passed through unprotected sex — this includes anal sex. The wall of the rectum is very thin and permeable. However, using condoms can be better for both partners, for other reasons. Women may not like to have a bottom full of semen, which quite frankly is a fair call. After the disruptions of anal sex, the semen mixes with the contents of the rectum and it can get a little “upset” in there. Using a condom avoids this trouble.

Condoms may also protect the penis from any stray fecal matter, though this is generally not a problem, and if it does occur can be washed off easily with no harm done. Men may like to wear a condom so they last a bit longer — the condom desensitizes the penis somewhat, and allows for longer lovemaking.

What not to do
Do not ever put your penis into a woman’s body without her express permission. Do not treat her body like a scoring device. She is not an object for you to ejaculate in or on, and if she is kind enough to share her beautiful butt with you, treat it with respect and be happy you were allowed close enough to breathe her in at all. Don’t ejaculate inside of her if requested not to. Don’t slam, jackhammer or be forceful either.

What to always do
Always use lube. Always wear a condom if requested to without acting like a baby. Do as you are asked at all times — anal sex is a delicate situation and she needs to be able to trust you.

Gender presumptions and anal sex
When a heterosexual couple thinks of anal sex, it is generally man-in-woman anal sex. To get a good understanding of what it’s like — and how to improve your performance — it is necessary and helpful for you to open your mind to the possibility that anal sex is not something that only you do to your female lover, but something that you could do to each other.

Scared yet? Don’t be. If it’s good for the goose, it’s good for the gander. Anal sex takes a lot of practice to perfect, and experimenting with one another is a fantastic way to deepen your connection and enhance your sex life and relationship. It does not have to involve sex toys. You can use fingers, tongues, oils, lubes, and any number of other things. Experiment, and let your own body be loved. It will pay off.”

I would love what you have to say about all this anal information! Share your adventures with us! I would LOVE to hear them!

Perhaps you are new to me and my sites or perhaps you would just like to get to know me better! So here I am…

I am world renowned fetish model, actress, and performer Jewell Marceau. I have been building my career as a fetish performer since 1996. I first started modeling in the Los Angeles area and as my career grew, my work has taken me all across the world to model for the top Bondage Producers that exist on the web today and it still keeps me incredibly busy and continuously traveling.

I have appeared in countless fetish magazines such as the old Bondage Life mags, Skin 2, Bizarre, Hustler’s Taboo, Marquis, Bound for Pleasure, Nugget, Leg World, Leg Sex, and countless others. The Signy Awards voted me the number 1 top bondage model in the year 2005 as a golden laurel winner, in 2004 I was voted the 2nd top ranking bondage model as a silver laurel winner, and I was voted 4th top bondage model as a finalist in 2003. You can find peaks of me on the Playboy Channel, HBO, Cinemax, Showtime, and many of those other naughty adult channels we all have so much fun watching late at night! I have appeared in tons of hardcore girl/girl and fetish videos that I could not begin to count or name them all!

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My whip a waits!

We’ve covered why she loves anal sex. Now we’re going to go over why she DOESN’T love it (Important to know so you can get her to walk on the wild side with you…). Here is more great info from the AskMen.com website:

“#1: Because anal sex hurts
Anal sex is not easy to master when you haven’t done it before. For a man it may seem straightforward — in, out — but it isn’t this simple. Women hate anal sex primarily because it hurts. It can cause cold sweats, shivers, extreme agony, and a massive chemical release into the blood stream that causes pain. This is highly unpleasant, but may be endured because A) She wants to like it; and B) She wants you to like it.

If you’re not very careful, if you don’t warm her up properly, if you don’t go slowly enough, you will probably hurt her. This really minimizes your chances for trying anal sex again. Do your best every time and you have at least a fighting chance at having another go.

#2: Because she’s worried about a mess
Anal sex is obviously a hot spot for mess. The idea that you could penetrate her butt and come out in a sticky situation is hugely embarrassing for her before it’s even happened, and for this reason she may avoid anal sex altogether. Women spend so much time making themselves look and smell beautiful that to have something ruin her hard work can be mildly devastating. Worrying about mess can be alleviated by using an anal douche before engaging in any anal play. Try taking a shower together too, and make sure her bowels are emptied at least an hour before starting.”

Some great advice, yes? Knowledge is power, and in this case, knowledge can bring you fun and unexpected pleasure!

Feel free to leave a comment below on how all these tips and information are helping YOUR sex life (They’re doing wonders for mine)!

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Happy New Year DVD sale for a Limited Time Only! All DVD’s $19.95!!


Happy New to all of my kinky friends and fans! That’s right, my New Year’s gift to all of you is my New Year’s DVD sale! All Jewell Marceau DVD’s are going to be $19.95 for the month of January only! New and old titles are available to you at this low, low price of $19.95. My New Years resolution is to be kinkier & sexier than ever when producing my photos, videos, custom DVD’s, stage performances, cam shows, during my private pro dom sessions, and while I’m fulfilling your personal requests. You all deserve my best and naughtiest so I intend to give you exactly that!

Check out this hot, kinky sale here!

Thanks to all of you who came to support me at my last live web cam show of the year Dec. 18th. It was of course holiday themed, taking place next to my lovely and huge Christmas tree on the chaise lounge next to the lights and presents. I wore my favorite Mrs. Santa outfit and tied myself up in various ways with a nice big, red ball gag, and topped it off with a nice vibe session by the mistletoe (And Yes! That is a picture of former President George Bush on the table beside me)!

Here’s a few photos from that  show to add to your New Years fantasies. I hope you all will cum join me for my next live web cam show straight from London on January 8th, 2011 at 7PM PST. I am hoping to invite a special guest to keep me tied and restrained!

Happy Holidays and Happy New Year to all of my kinky friends! The year is now over and it is time to start anew! I am now currently living in London for the holiday season. I have been busy shooting, editing, and enjoying the recent downfall of snow. I am usually residing in sunny Los Angeles and I don’t get to enjoy the beautiful snow very often. Here are some pics of my snowy adventures in London Fields Park!

I want to wish all of you the best and happiest New Year ever! In January I am planning some special New Year treats for my friends and fans, so keep your eyes peeled for my announcement and gift to you! Best Kinky Wishes to you and yours and let’s start the New Year off with some kinky fun!

You can also check me out at my other super kinky site!

Thanks for squeezing me tight Santa! Jewell has been a very good girl!!

I want you to fully enjoy every single time you put your lips on someone else’s.  (Oooo…I’m getting hot just thinking about that…!) So here is more from “Women’s Health”:

Kissing Tip #2

Sweeten the Deal

“Mickey Rourke’s character in the movie 9 1/2 Weeks had the right idea when he fed Kim Basinger juicy strawberries during their naked romp. Eat one before making out; strawberries activate the sweetness receptors in your mouth, so when you kiss, your sense of taste will go into overdrive, says Krista Bloom, Ph.D., author of The Ultimate Compatibility Quiz.

Kissing Tip #3

Create Spine-Tingling Chills

Swipe on mint lip balm before planting one on him to engage touch, taste, and smell. “Menthol triggers the body’s cold receptors, and when that’s combined with your warm breath, you’ll feel a tingly sensation from your lips straight down to your genitals,” says sexologist Ava Cadell, Ph.D. You can get a similar sensory effect by taking a swig of champagne or seltzer. The bubbles will tickle, tingle, and then evaporate. Just one note: Menthol can irritate sensitive skin below the belt, so if you’ll be paying each other some oral attention later, make sure you both wash your lips and rinse out your mouths first.”

All sounds so delicious to me! Let me know all about your hot kissing sessions–and make sure you’re thinking of me!!!